Isn’t it funny how we hate a lot of things but build an unbreakable bond later on? Could be people,things,habits,anything that you relate to. My friends fall under different categories. And there are a bunch whom I didn’t like in the first go. But looking at it now, we are great. Also the best thing I have noticed about this hate to love trope in my life is the weird habits I have developed over time. Adulting takes the credit for sure in all these major happenings. And what’s more suspicious is the fact that I hated them to the core at a time. But either times have changed or I have. And I have gladly accepted the fact because most of my problems vanish away or evaporate when I acknowledge them. Also I want to embrace myself in all forms that I have and the phases I go through. The world already hates me. Wouldn’t it be a little too much if I join in too?
Anyways back to the growth phase. We,as part of the human race, go through a lot of changes since childhood and see a lot of transitions everyday. And these all add to the personality that we make out of ourselves. These are obviously the traits that we come across in everyday life and find things that resonate with us. When I find myself in all the turmoil where I am suddenly remembered about the triggers I had earlier but now remain unaffected to, I sometimes find myself raising questions to myself, and they are kind of hurting too at times. But then That’s life I guess. I soak in the fact that I have grown up a little and so has the world around changed a bit. And nothing stays permanent in this ever changing world. So it is but natural for you and I to feel all these within. And we shall only hurt our own selves putting us in the courtroom. So not boring it further,Let’s just accept that we are growing up, accepting things and modifying ourselves a bit. Let’s be good to one another and allow people to criticise the things they themselves did at a point. They might know their evil sides and thus they stand against it. And thus they are not on the turf on the other side. Life is a torture already and let’s not add oil in the burning fire. Growth surely hits differently and it’s not in you and me to try to stop this. It’s better that we not pause this phase and it’s best that we continue on this journey ahead.
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Until next time!
Signing off
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