Planning on a Date? Ready to plunge in the river of love? Wanting the life you desire?
Okay,Come back to reality. As easy as you think it to be, it is just not. And I can have an infinite number of things to tell you how you cannot be in a happy love life. Why, you ask. I have been in this stage for so long myself that I don’t ever consider myself even falling for somebody. It is a little tough honestly but once you start looking through things and start peering into their real versions, there is actually no going back. I am not outrightly denying the existence of it but yes, if you really wish for it, you have to be patient and calm and genuine. Because you tell me, are you going to accept someone who is not real? No,right? And I have heard so many breakup stories and betrayal narratives that I am afraid to dream of it. But love is beautiful. And no matter how hard you and I try, it will make a space in our lives. Not necessarily a continuous spot but yes there shall be times when you would just think about What-If.
Been There and Felt That. Although it has not lasted for long, it has made its presence felt. Reasons have been that I don’t find people much who resonate with me. So all the emotions that come as a rollercoaster are for a short duration and last only till the time period of one complete cycle of the ride. It’s really not the fact that I do not want to put efforts but the people should be worthy of it. They should be worth all the pain I undertake for them and they should not unvalue my time and efforts. I mean C’mon time and efforts matter and they are the most important thing one can give. But if they bear just trauma, betrayal, or tears in return, the risk is too much. And heartbreaks are one of the most devilish things that can happen, changing our being, snatching a part, losing a piece, breaking a component and traumatising a portion forever.
So the next time or anytime you think of falling in love, Make sure that you are ready to deep dive into it. Make yourself so strong emotionally and mentally that you enjoy with them, but also you don’t forget your individual self. It’s important to understand that love completes you as a couple and that you yourself are a complete being first. It must be realised that the efforts taken and time dedicated is reciprocated too. It might have an unbalance initially but it should gradually move towards the centre of gravity. And I am not telling you to be on high alert every moment but just be a little conscious and cautious so you don’t go on inviting problems. You were living without them before meeting them also. So just do not get overwhelmed by their presence and forget that you are responsible too for a lot of things going on in your life. The mental resolve is important wherein you do not allow someone to step on you. Love is beautiful but gets a meaning when we already love ourselves and are just looking for someone great as a partner who supports us, claps for us and cherishes us.
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Until next time!
Signing off
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