The conversations with people are beautiful. Especially when they talk about things they love. It is their depth in their interests that makes them more worthy. And conversations include personal experiences that can be learned from or gained experience from. And if not anything, it gives a good sense of all the happenings and their perceptions in the world. Because perspectives differ person to person. What better way to know and acknowledge them? Conversations open the gates of friendship, makes them stronger, lets them feel heard, gives them a space to open up and share their heart.
Sharing has been an integral part of humans, because They are no island. We need to feel a sense of belonging because it is a strong one that lets people be in their own skin comfortably. Bottling up only turns things south and denies the basic right of living well. We humans have a load of feelings swimming inside and they keep us restless. To deal with it, we need to share them or just talk about them. Talking makes the heart feel light.
I am someone who talks a lot because I gel with people easily. It is not just about bonding. If I feel comfortable with a stranger, I may overshare. And I try to be kind to others so they can be themselves too. Because I know how it feels to lock down the feelings that we want to have a conversation about. It makes the hearts and heads go dizzy and damages the normal alignment. While I have been quite lucky with having reliable people around, There have been times when I was suffocating inside. A turmoil was happening in me and I had no clue how to calm down the roars of it. It is not that I could not talk about it, but it could lead to directions that I would never want to trace. Because sometimes, when conversations take a new route, they deliver paint too. Sharing them can help because it releases the fear but not everyone, not any stranger can have access to it.
Trauma takes a long while to release, and sometimes deep conversations also take a few rounds to start its dissolution. And the people who laugh the most on the smallest jokes, also cry on the smallest pranks. Because the smiles that they wear are their weapons to deviate the world from them and their pain behind the smile they carry.
Conversation helps, surely. But finding the right person takes a little too long sometimes. The clan that shall not betray and who shall always stay with you are hard to be found. But once found, they make the things easier and the wait all along, worthy. Thus, fight your battles alone as per your capability till you find your pack. A lonely warrior is a powerful warrior too. The pack shall strengthen you more but being with the wrong bunch can weaken you. So, fight for yourselves with all you have. You have to be stronger to make your clan stronger too.
From a lonely warrior to someone in somebody’s protection, I have had a transition. Hope you find yours too. (soovlogss@gmail.com)
Until next time!
Signing off
So
